How to Choose a Sex Toy
Choosing a vibrator can feel like navigating a new city. Imagine planning a trip: some might head straight to the landmarks their friends rave about, while others explore off-the-beaten-path gems that suit their unique tastes. Vibrators are much the same—what delights one person might not work for another. So, how do you find your perfect destination? Let’s explore the map of vibrator options to guide you on this exciting journey.
Step 1: Ask Yourself, "What Do I Want It to Do?"
Vibrators come with a variety of functions, each offering a unique experience. Think of these functions as different attractions in a city. Here’s a guide to some of the main ones:
Vibration: The classic attraction. Within this category, you have:
Internal Vibrators: Often longer for G-spot stimulation.
External Vibrators: Ergonomically designed for clitoral stimulation.
Open-Tipped Vibrators: Shaped like a flower for enveloping sensations.
Bullets: Small and discreet, perfect for pinpoint stimulation.
Other basic categories include:
Air Pulse: Feels like gentle taps on your skin, providing rhythmic stimulation.
Air Suction: Mimics a sucking sensation, like a gentle vacuum.
Thrusting: Moves in and out to simulate penetrative motion.
Tapping, Tongue Licking, Spinning, Moving Texture: These offer varied, unique sensations.
Dual Stimulation: Combines internal and external stimulation, like a rabbit vibrator.
Heated: Adds warmth for a lifelike feel.
Each main function has subcategories that further refine the experience. Let’s take vibration, for example. You might prefer:
Texture: Smooth, textured, flexible, or stiff.
Material: Metal, aluminum, plastic, or silicone.
Power Source: Battery-operated or rechargeable (the latter is typically more powerful and quieter).
Step 2: Consider Practical Factors
Choosing the right vibrator involves more than just the type of sensation it provides. Think about:
Noise Level: Some toys are whisper-quiet, while others might not be as discreet.
Ease of Use: Hands-free, ergonomic for partner play, or easy solo grip.
Power Levels: Do you prefer gentle or intense stimulation? Some vibrators, like the Satisfyer Power Bullet or the Lelo Gigi 2, offer adjustable speeds for both high and low intensity.
Waterproof: Not all waterproof toys work well in the bath—check if it's submersible for deeper water use.
Step 3: Match Your Needs to Specific Toys
Here are some suggestions based on different preferences:
First Timer: The Vedo Midori is a versatile choice. It’s long enough for internal use, short enough for external, and has varied textures and power levels to help you explore what you like.
Sensitive Users: Low-stimulation vibrators like the Satisfyer Charming Smile might be ideal, offering gentle, controlled vibrations.
Intensity Seekers: High-power wands such as the Femme Fun Cadenza and vibrators with strong motors can deliver the intense sensations you crave.
Step 4: Experiment and Explore
Everyone’s body is different, so what works for one person might not work for you. If you try something and it doesn’t quite hit the mark, don’t be discouraged—there are countless options out there.
Visiting a local sex store can be immensely helpful. Many stores offer demos that allow you to feel the vibration and texture of the toys before buying. This hands-on experience can give you a better sense of what you might enjoy.
Remember, choosing a vibrator is about finding what makes you feel good. It’s a personal journey, and exploring different options is part of the fun. Start with a clear idea of what you want the toy to do, consider practical factors, and don’t be afraid to experiment. Whether you find joy in a gentle buzz or a powerful throb, the perfect vibrator for you is out there. Happy exploring!
